On this site we have included articles, resources and insights helpful to parents contemplating or negotiating the complicated path of divorce. We have concentrated on the major issues and events that impact children. Many of these subjects are dealt with in more detail in our book Don't Divorce Your Children, written to help parents and professionals with the demanding task of helping children through the ups and downs of divorce.
Here is a summary of the articles/resources we have included: Residential/Non-Residential Parenting This article deals with issues as they effect the residential and non-residential parent. Building on the Strengths of Children In their concern for their children parents often underestimate the strengths children draw on to cope with adversity A Mismatch of Points of View Children and parents often have different ideas about how much time should be spent in each other's company. Kids are often looking for space to interact with their peers or to pursue their own interests while parents often want to spend every minute of available time together. What Children Say About Divorce These examples of the sorts of questions children ask their parents show why it is important to examine the meaning behind their statements or behaviors.
Parents' Responsibilities in Divorce This is a list of essential roles parents need to be available to play with their kids during the divorce. Ten Guidelines for Parents The ten most important rules when dealing with your children. The Recovery Process How the recovery process of parents and children differs and why Whose Interests Come First? Many parents have been led to believe that actions which serve their self-interest will inherently be "better" for the kids. That assumption needs to be questioned. Wanted: Good Fathers Fathers play a key role in helping children cope with divorce. What is Divorce Like for Kids? This article looks at some of the feelings children express during and after the divorce. Giving Children an Appropriate Voice A discussion of why children need to be encouraged to voice their point of view even if their wishes are unrealistic, their opinions unpopular or their judgments are flawed. Staying In Touch With the Kids Relying on the telephone to contact each other often leads to difficulty. This article examines the advantages and disadvantages of different ways of staying in touch. Feelings of Fault All children wonder if they had a role in causing their parents' divorce. Parents are wise to listen first rather than rushing to reassure their children. We will be updating this site with new material. If
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